041010

due date 171010
actual date 041010

hehe.. ok, so i've given birth 2 weeks earlier. unintended actually. i try targerting 101010, but i think that pineapple vitagen did the trick! 2 days after i drink the vitagen, i broke my water. and 1 day later, i gave birth.

anyway, have u met OurJoy!


ok. so the story goes like this.

7am - 8am bright Sunday morning of 3rd Oct 2010:
woke up at my bedroom at my parents. bermalasan atas katil with MyLove! MyLove! telling me what his plan for that day (open houses and weddings to attend without me tagging along bcoz dah terlalu sarat). me feeling malas to get up even i'm already wide awake. MyLove! decided to buy some kelantanese breakfast. se he went ahead downstairs and me continuing with me lazy sunday.

approximately 8 - 815ish am:
i did sleep like 5 minutes max. then i felt something weird in my stomach. like something did happened. but i don't know how to describe it. but the baby still moving like nobody business in the stomach. so, i guess it's just gas. the feeling is just too weird

820ish am:
a quick splash of water coming out from my vagina. not really splash, more like a high speed spray (xtau nak describe), with me still lying in bed. shocked, i woke up and the water just keep on dripping. clear water. so it's not pee. tho i do really need to pee at that time.so i just went to the bathroom and pee and washed out the water, but it still keep on dripping. i called MyLove! number (thinking that he's out buying some nasi) but his phone was ringing in the room. aiyooo.. x bawak hp plak. thank God he did not go anywhere. just watching tv in the living room. so i called for him to come upstairs and show him what had happened.

930 am:
after a quick bath and breakfast (nasi goreng my mom made) we straight away went to hospital serdang. i did not feel any pain whatsoever. no contraction.. no blood show.. baby still moving.. but the water still keep on dripping. even at that moment i'm still praying that the baby won't come out sooner because of my targeted date (101010.. hehe).
at the nurse counter, i was told to go inside the waiting ward, changed into my kain batik, lie on the bed and wait, while they monitored the baby's heart beat. i did try to sleep but i guess because of the machine, i just can't seem to close my eyes. baby's heart beat is normal. so i waited for the doctors to check me out.
the doctor came and did a quick check. discover opening only 1 cm. later another doctor told me that i have to be warded for 18 hours, and if there is no delivery, an induced procedure will be done after 24 hours. i was then told to change into ward's pink attire, plug in the jarum thinging at my left hand and waited outside.

11ish am
MyLove! and Daddy are outside at the waiting area. stay with them while having brunch and read newspaper. Daddy had to leave to check up his bees in UPM. i stayed with MyLove! at the waiting area until the nurse came to me to bring me up to the ward.

1230ish pm - 730pm:
at the ward, i was station in a single room, with my own bathroom and a nice view of hospital landscape, but no TV! :(. MyLove! joined me and later daddy came. then mommy came. bored to death in the room. so i just chit chatting with MyLove! and my parents until the visiting hour was over.

830ish pm:
a doc came to check me out. still no signs of delivery.

10ish pm:
trying to sleep since too bored.
but it was sleepless night (i have no idea how to operate the bed so it's not very comfortable!)

between 2am - 6am:
nurse came by to check my blood pressure and baby's heart beat, making me not having enough sleep. feel mild contraction along the way

630am:
doctors checking the opening, still at 1cm.

7am - 730am:
MyLove! came for visit. had breakfast and still sleepy. discover my water has stop dripping. sudah rase gembira sbb ingat dah bole discharge.

730am - 12pm:
trying to sleep but with a lot of disturbance from nurses who trying to get my blood pressure and checking baby's heart beat. at one time there's a specialist doctor doing the routine checking. after several disturbance, decided to have bath (hot shower lagi) and do toilet business. contraction still mild but seems quicken

12pm:
lunch came in  and a nurse came by, told me 'a good news'. asking me to eat my lunch quickly and get ready to enter the delivery room. dengan x percayenye (sbb ingat dah boleh discharge), thinking that i might be induced or c-sect since no strong contraction yet.

1230pm - 2pm:
MyLove! and daddy came. i told them about what the nurse told me. MyLove! getting ready to bring things to delivery room. nurse giving ubat julap to clear the system. nurse bring me down to the delivery room. daddy said good luck at the lift.

2pm:
preparation at delivery room. still no feeling of giving birth since still no major contraction (siap bole gelak2 dgn nurse). a doctor check me out, check the opening, now at 3cm and help me pee. told me i can't get up from the bed, no toilet trip, no drinking, no eating. later MyLove! came in. temaning me for a while then the doc came back for a detail checking. while checking discover that my posterior water bag did break but did not release completely, help to break the water bag completely and mcm air terjun ia mengalir. i wet my bed! doc told me i may have to wait for minimum 16 hours for the baby to come out! gilo apo nak tunggu kelaparan kat situ. huhu

3ish pm - 6 ish pm:
contraction sudah bermula. staring from mild contraction that i still can manage until sakit teramat. the feeling is like something is going to explode in your stomach, but the stomach is to hard and the back is too painfull. holding MyLove! hands during the contraction did not help that much (hehe), using the painkiller gas did nothing. and at one point a doctor suggested to inject another painkiller, only to make me more sleepy and did not ease the pain at all. at one point the opening is already at 5cm.
MyLove! told me at one time when the doctors checking me, i was screaming very loudly and my voice can be heard at the nurse station. hehe..amatlah sorry, but at that time the doctors are checking the opening during my contraction period. sgt2 sakit ok!

oh, did i mention one of the doctor is kakak nadiah zawani?!

6ish pm:
i told MyLove! that i feel like pooing and ask him to called the nurse to help me with the mess that i was about to make. he did nothing! thinking that it's only my imagination.
the truth is the baby;s head is about to came out!

626pm Monday evening of 4th Oct 2010:
after a lot of courage by the nurses and MyLove! (oh and one intern doctor), a healthy baby girl has safely coming out from my womb.
the feeling: EXTRAORDINARY!

630ish - 730ish pm:
proses jahitan bermula
i was pushed back to my room.
breastfeed my baby for the first time.

8pm - 820pm
MyLove! teman me for a while before being ask to leave.

830ish of 4th Oct 2010 till 430pm of 6th Oct 2010:
duduk di ward sahaja, breastfeed baby, makan, tido, tukar lampin baby, mandi, tido lagi dan lagi

yes, so i stayed in the hospital for 4 freaking days!!! not because of the baby, but because of the mommy (that's me!). sampai the cleaner and the guard pon dah kenal aku dok tanye2 lagi bile nak keluar spital ni. i did no t make friend with other mother (because i was in a single room, and because most of the mothers only have to stay for maximum one night!) but i did make friends with the nurses (tp restricted sikit since kadang2 doctor panggil diorg ni)
but rest assure, everything turn out fine, i did not have any infection whatsoever.

after the first experience, would i do it again?
maybe! but not for the next 2 years kot.. ehehehehehe (nanti 2nd time dah lupe dah)

i'll post photos soon!